Last year, when we downsized from a house in the suburbs to an apartment on the Upper West Side of New York, I thought I had a pretty good handle on the sacrifices and benefits our move would entail — we’d struggle with less space, but we’d be psyched to have New York City and all the culture that comes along with it right outside our front door. Both of those things proved to be true, but a year and change later, my perspective is a little more nuanced on the transition, and I thought it was about time I shared the long-promised Pros & Cons List of City vs. Suburbs…